Unsettling day – my wife and I snapping at each other for no apparent reason; odd mix of ennui, rot and hostility in the house. Walked outside, smelled the same in the air all over the cul-de-sac. Damn, what’s up? Then saw the news. “NY OKs gay marriage.” Biggest state yet. Well, there you have it then. Traditional marriages everywhere already collapsing. By Monday, it’ll look like a scene from “The Road” in my hetero ‘hood.