I am resolved in 2011 to take life one step at a time in all matters great and small. For example, when I'm pushing my cart around the parking lot, growing ever more frustrated searching for my car, rather than, per usual, freaking out and hurling produce and canned foods at innocent passersby, I first will pause, take a deep breath and ask myself the all-important question: "OK, now, focus. Which car did I drive?"